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Faux Locs, Child abuse???? What!?!

The mother who was accused on twitter of child abuse for installing faux locs on her child is a good example of how social media can cause more problems than it's worth.  There are always trolls out there who are ready for any opportunity to interfere in other people's personal lives and cause trouble whenever they can. 

Are Faux Locs "Child Abuse"?

I must state that I don't know if faux locs are painful or uncomfortable.  If commenters are accurate about it, I think the mother exercised poor judgment.  However, I would still not consider it "abuse."  These days, too many people freely use that word for anything they disapprove of, even when there is nothing abusive about the situation. 

If it is not a painful process, I would have two concerns.  First, I'd wonder if the girl asked for this style, or if it was the mother's idea.  While children should not always get what they want, it makes a difference in this situation.  I would be more inclined to consider it o.k. if it was the little girl's own choice. 

Second, I'd wonder how the style affects the child's life.  If this style is not common in her school or neighborhood, it could set her up to be ridiculed or bullied.  It is not o.k. to make a child present herself as different from her peers.  However, if faux locs are popular among her little friends, there is no reason she should not have them, too. 

 

Too Much Social Media

Social media can invite trolls into your life, even when their presence and comments are not welcome.  The best approach is to keep pictures and information about your children off Facebook and similar sites.  While we all love our kids and want to brag about them, a public website is not the best place to do it. 

It is better to share your children's photos and milestones with people who really matter.  You have many friends that are not simply "Facebook friends."  You have family members, and probably coworkers and neighbors who love to hear about your kids, too.  If you stick to people who count, you will not need to cope with ignorant remarks from strangers on social media sites. 

About Me

Hello ! Nina Here, I am a blogger and a mother to 5 lovely children (blended family), with our 6th bundle of joy, Joylin who was born on 10.27.2020. Our Family is now complete.
As you can see, I’m an experienced mommy with the joys of motherhood becoming more challenging than ever in this Day n age of Internet, smartphones and chaos. I want to help other mothers make the most of what they have so they can be their best selves and be the best parents they can ever be.
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